so its Easter and my sons girlfriend whom has his baby boy?
again did not b ring baby over, she constalety argues with me, she was fine till baby was born, no it is not pps, she just feels the power over me , baby is 14 months ancient now, he hasnt been to our house since xmas and even then he came over at 11 pm at night VERY TIRED and with a cold,anything i buy for the baby or feed the baby, she scolds me, i walk on egg shells with her, she is 20 yrs ancient , btw, shje called me an idiot today onmsn and to f off as i said if baby was to come to our house what could i feed him with out the bs of her talking terrible of me, she told me f off. I bought baby easter gifts and his bday gifts are still here, so im giving up, our son is just as mean , he is on her side, and son and i never did get along to start with, he was troubled teen. so i reckon i should close doors since communication is disrespectful , she likes to tel me how everyone despises me. she is cruel and im sick of it
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ignore them, simple as that
try and ignoorr them alittle.
liikke dont take muuch note of them
when theycome aorund just hi.
and go on with something .
when they go say bye. give a small smile
do this for weeks
see what happens.
find friends.
go out with them t places. =]
have a excellent time.
dw bout them.!
they’re just ruining your life.
after a while your son we surely come to his sences. =]
All I can say is that you reap what you sow. Terrible children are the products of terrible parents. There must be a reason that even your son doesn’t wish his child to be around you…The mother has a right to defend her child…as the saying goes…The flipside of the maternal instinct – is the killer instinct…
Reckon about that for a moment…
If you don’t like the outcome of your choices and actions – change your choices and act differently…
sounds like you raised a small schitthead. do like larry david and say ” F me ? F me?!!?, F you buddy” say it really loud and over dramatic like too. like her f u does really bother you. and call the baby by his or her name, babies are people too. they will come to you soon for diaper money or christmas money. thats when you get to laugh in their small disrespectful faces.
and ignore this step mom character. schitty people always want to blame the parents. there are many other influences on punk ass teens besides parents. question “step” mom why shes a “step” mom. i bet her “step” kids despise that bitch.
Gosh, it sucks that you try to be a excellent grandmother and get absolutely no credit. I don’t know what you can do. Try talking to them, try telling them you want to be apart of the babies life and it hurts you that you can’t. Maybe don’t buy anything else and don’t give her any advice. Maybe sit her down alone without your son being there and question her what you did to piss her off. I don’t know but I wish you luck.
Talking to certain relatives/family members online is the worst place to talk. You can’t see the person’s facial expressions and the same goes for them on the other side.
There’s really not much you can do, but just step aside and let them live their own lives. As far as gifts, maybe you should give the baby gift certificates, money or bonds in the future. It’ll certainly look like you’re not trying to control what his mother and father are doing for him.
You can also tell the two of them that you will be there for the three of them when they question for your help.
End all conversations with….I like you. That really gets people to shut up. It’s nothing that they will ever expect a person to say.
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